12 So whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets. ~ Matthew 7:12
As a seller, I work hard to make sure that I go above and beyond for my customers. I become flexible to the best of my ability, in order to make the transaction as easy and pleasant as possible for them. I am very proud to say that by doing this, I have a 5-star rating across all platforms that I sell on. But no matter how hard you try, no matter how much you bend over backward for some people, it’s never enough.
I recently had a guy who wanted a PS2 system and some games, but couldn’t make it for over a week. Now, most people don’t hold items for people, especially not expensive items like this one, and for so long. But I did it anyway. I held the item for him, without asking for a down payment to hold the item (it cost well over $100). I met him on the date and time that worked best for us both. He came. Checked it out. Made sure everything was good. Paid. Took his item. And left. When I checked my rating, he had given me 4 stars. Why? I’ll never know. He said I was very nice, great work with, great communication, but yet only gave me 4 stars.
It’s in these moments that I have to remind myself that you can bend over backward and go out of your way for someone, and it still won’t be enough. They won’t appreciate it. And that’s okay. How you treat others shouldn’t just be about what you can get in return. Yes, I would’ve appreciated a 5-star rating, and yes, honestly, it did bother me, but at the end of the day, it’s okay. We, the Church, are to be Christ to the world, whether or not we get the appreciation we deserve. Even in something as simple as selling a gaming system and some games, I was able to look back at that situation and interaction with pride, knowing that I treated my customer as I would like to be treated. That I treated him as the Church should treat others.
So often we get caught up with how we react in the huge things, that we forget that the little things matter just as much, and sometimes, even more. You never know how your actions and reactions can impact someone else. How they can either turn people to Christ or away from Him. We are His representation on this earth. And if we want to represent him well, then we need to live by His Golden Rule.
Peace. Love. Go Forth and Treat Others As You’d Like To Be Treated.