5 Then I set before the Rechabites pitchers full of wine, and cups, and I said to them, “Drink wine.” 6 But they answered, “We will drink no wine, for Jonadab the son of Rechab, our father, commanded us, ‘You shall not drink wine, neither you nor your sons forever. 7 You shall not build a house; you shall not sow seed; you shall not plant or have a vineyard; but you shall live in tents all your days, that you may live many days in the land where you sojourn.’ 8 We have obeyed the voice of Jonadab the son of Rechab, our father, in all that he commanded us, to drink no wine all our days, ourselves, our wives, our sons, or our daughters, 9 and not to build houses to dwell in. We have no vineyard or field or seed, 10 but we have lived in tents and have obeyed and done all that Jonadab our father commanded us. 11 But when Nebuchadnezzar king of Babylon came up against the land, we said, ‘Come, and let us go to Jerusalem for fear of the army of the Chaldeans and the army of the Syrians.’ So we are living in Jerusalem.”
12 Then the word of the Lord came to Jeremiah: 13 “Thus says the Lord of hosts, the God of Israel: Go and say to the people of Judah and the inhabitants of Jerusalem, Will you not receive instruction and listen to my words? declares the Lord. 14 The command that Jonadab the son of Rechab gave to his sons, to drink no wine, has been kept, and they drink none to this day, for they have obeyed their father’s command. I have spoken to you persistently, but you have not listened to me. 15 I have sent to you all my servants the prophets, sending them persistently, saying, ‘Turn now every one of you from his evil way, and amend your deeds, and do not go after other gods to serve them, and then you shall dwell in the land that I gave to you and your fathers.’ But you did not incline your ear or listen to me. ~ Jeremiah 35:5-15
Jonadab had given his children clear, godly instructions—but it wasn’t just about wine, but about how to live, how to remain set apart, and how to honor the LORD with their lifestyle. These commands were not arbitrary. Jonadab’s instructions kept his family separate from the idolatrous, indulgent culture of Israel, which was steeped in Baal worship and moral decay.
By living simply and staying mobile, the Rechabites remained a distinct people, loyal to God’s values in a world pulling them away from Him. Today’s fathers face a similar challenge—to lead their families in holiness amidst a culture that often opposes God’s truth.
He wasn’t around anymore. By now, Jonadab had been dead for centuries. And yet, his words lived on. His children and their children after them, not only remembered what he taught—they obeyed it! Fathers, your words matter. Mothers, your words matter. Teachers. Leaders. Mentors. Your example matters. What you teach, how you live, and the standard you set can echo for generations.
Peace. Love. Go Forth and Teach The Next Generation.